Guy ghosts his pregnant girlfriend as payback for cheating on him
Romantic relationships require hard work – but that doesn’t mean
we’re meant to be mollycoddled if we slip up. If you commit yourself to
someone, you’re essentially telling yourself that you’re ready to put in
the work necessary to keep this thing going. You’ve decided that your
significant other is so special that you’d do anything for him or her –
no matter how hard things get.This story is a prime example of a relationship that imploded within
seconds – all because someone cheated. The sad thing is that these
lovebirds were together for a whopping seven years. That’s about as
serious as you can get before getting married – but after she broke his
trust, he could never look at her the same.
However, this isn’t just your typical cheating-breakup story – we’ve got a twist for you today. What makes this story so particularly intriguing is how the boyfriend handled things – and how everyone responded.
We’re going to tell you the story exactly like the boyfriend did – in
a long extended post on Reddit. He started it off by saying that he and
his lady had been dating for more than seven years (as we mentioned
previously).
He continued to talk about how they had discussed the idea of marriage quite often, and also talked about having kids a lot as well. Clearly they seemed destined to be together forever, or at least he thought so. He also added that she had recently quit her job two years prior so that she could go to medical school.
However, this isn’t just your typical cheating-breakup story – we’ve got a twist for you today. What makes this story so particularly intriguing is how the boyfriend handled things – and how everyone responded.
A long term relationship
He continued to talk about how they had discussed the idea of marriage quite often, and also talked about having kids a lot as well. Clearly they seemed destined to be together forever, or at least he thought so. He also added that she had recently quit her job two years prior so that she could go to medical school.
An act of betrayal
His phone had gotten lost, so he opened up hers to call his own – and that’s when he saw the conversation between his girlfriend and her ex. He went on to say that he has nothing personal against this man she got together with – but he has no idea why she’d ever want to be with him, because in his words, the guy is going “nowhere in life.”
Supporting her financially
It wasn’t just the fact that he imagined her as the “mother of his future children.” According to him, he had also supported her financially in more ways than one. He had been, and still was, paying for her rent, her food, and her college tuition, fully supporting her through medical school.
Kicking her out
He continued to pack up as much of her belongings as he could find in their apartment, and proceeded to leave it all outside. When he was done, he texted her what he had done – and explained that if she wanted to get anything else out of the apartment that he hadn’t found, she should have her brother come and pick it up.
Receiving backlash
He started getting countless phone calls from both her parents and his parents too! They agreed that she had done something “wrong,” but in their opinion it wasn’t a good enough reason to throw away seven plus years of a relationship. Furthermore, they reasoned, if he ends it with her, she would then have to “drop out” and waste all those years of education.
Not my problem
He gave her everything she needed and she still couldn’t remain faithful – why should he stick by her now? He stopped answering the phone calls, and he blocked her number – but the story wasn’t over.
Blocking everyone out
After blocked his girlfriend (now ex) from all means of communication, both her and his parents tried to confront him directly. They came to his apartment, but he simply ignored their persistent knocks.
Apartment ambush
So one afternoon they simply waited by his door while he was on his way home from work. When he got home, outside his door was not just his parents and her parents – but his girlfriend was there too.
The apology
They went inside the apartment, and immediately she began to apologize profusely, and of course begging him to forgive her. She said that their relationship was the “best thing that ever happened to her,” and that she could “never forgive herself.”
Not having it
He wasn’t interested in her apologies – but apparently she had more up her sleeve. According to her, there was a good reason she had for what he had done. But when she told him the real reason, he called it the “most ridiculous excuse” he’d ever heard.
Her little secret
She was having major doubts about starting a family, and this led her to reach out to her ex-boyfriend from high school. Apparently it was originally intended to be a friendly meet-and-greet…
Excuses excuses
As the boyfriend acknowledged to the Reddit community, this logic made no sense at all. Especially because they had been talking about having kids for years. This wasn’t something new – it just seemed like excuses she was making up. But she wasn’t done.
Doubling down
The other one was unused, and she told him that if he didn’t believe her, she could take the test again right then and there, and he would see for himself that she’s actually pregnant. He agreed to this, so she took the test, and lo and behold, she was indeed pregnant.
More texts
Immediately he checked her text messages, and found something pretty disturbing. Ever since he had thrown her out of the house, she and the man she cheated on with were still texting “non-stop.”
Wait outside…
Clearly she was still conflicted, and not 100% remorseful of what she had done. So then he told her to leave his apartment, because he needed “time to process this.” He then told her to wait outside – he knew what he wanted to do.
The final text message
If it turns out that he’s the father, he’ll be a good father and take care of it – but regarding her, she would be nothing more than the mother of their child.
His guidelines
He told her that she shouldn’t bother trying to reach out to him, because he wants nothing to do with her. He then added that he’ll only be in the child’s life after getting a proven paternity test confirming that he’s the father.
Bittersweet symphony
For this reason, he said, he would never forgive her. Those were the final words of the text, and he explained to the Reddit users that he has no interest in reading her reply.
Signing off
He didn’t seem too excited about that. Clearly this story was a roller coaster of emotions, and the Reddit community were all too keen to comment on it.
Community support
He agreed that the boyfriend doesn’t owe her anything. This user also brought up another very interesting point: Why does she need him to pay for school? Why can’t she take out student loans like the rest of the college-going community?
Her massive debt
This debt is because of a health problem she’s apparently had for a very long time – and he’s been paying for that too! In other words, she’s been financially dependent on him in all aspects of life – so she should’ve thought about that before she cheated on him.
Rise up to the challenge
But instead of talking to him about her fears and being honest, she proceeded to throw all caution to the wind and betray his trust. And now she’s suffering the consequences.
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