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Oct 28, 2018

What Your Sleeping Position With A Partner Says About Your Relationship

In the relationship, cuddles are important as it gives you the feeling of safety and security. Like that, a bedtime cuddle is also important. Physical contact of any kind makes people relax and also reduces the tensions of their daily life. If you and your partner cuddle up while sleeping, then it helps in maintaining the intimacy and also makes you relax. It makes your bond strong as we like physical closeness and contact.


If you sleep far apart and back-to-back:



This position is very practical and also very common. Even though it might seem like you two are distant and you love is fading, the truth is far from that. This position indicates that you two are comfortable and secure with each other. The two of you are close to each other but you also enjoy your independence.

If you want to spoon.


Another common position for sleeping is the spooning position. This one indicated that you two are close and the one who is the ‘big spoon’ is protective of the one who is the ‘little spoon’. It also means that you two trust each other, you feel secure and also you have confidence in your partner.

Back to back

When their backs are touching, the partners are comfortable, intimate and relaxed in their relationship.

If you sleep intertwined with each other but as the night goes you move apart:


Your faces are close to each other and also your legs and arms are intertwined, but as the night goes on you two move apart. This position indicates independence and also intimacy between the two of you.

The bed is dominated by one of the partners:


This can seriously be one of those toxic relationships. Maybe the best thing you should do is put an end to that relationship before things get very bad.

The Fabio.


If the way you sleep looks like this, it could look like the cover of a romantic novel, this sleeping position is known as The Fabio, where both are passionately holding each other. It gives you the feel of fiery passion that won’t burn out.

You sleep facing each other, however you are not touching:


This is an indicator of a relationship where the two partners are emotionally demanding of each other. Maybe, the relationship is craving for more intimacy and better communication.

The romantic position

This position includes the man laying on his back and the woman placing her head on his chest. It usually takes place when the relationship is fresh.

Challenge Your Brain: Find the Numbers of Brothers and Sisters in the Family

Challenge your brain with this riddle and leave your answers in the comment section.
In a family, there are some children.

Every boy in the family has as many brothers as sisters.

However, each girl has twice the number of brothers compared to that of sisters.

Can you calculate the exact number of brothers and sisters in the given family?

 

Answer:

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You can solve this mentally by assuming the number of siblings and then trying to fir it in the given information.
You will see that 4 brothers and 3 sisters fits perfectly into the given details.
You can also solve this mathematically.
If you consider b as number of brothers and s as number of sisters.
we can write the following from the given information;
(b-1) = s &
b = 2(s-1)
Solving above 2 equations we get;
b – s = 1
-b + 2s = 2
Therefore;
s = 3
b = 4
Answer is;
Number of brothers = 4;
Number of sisters = 3.

10 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Mess With An Empath, Ever

Empaths are truly gifted people in many ways. They are masters of reading body language and have no trouble reading your mind too. They innately know what you are thinking but not telling, even if you are not aware of it.
It is a rare gift which makes them what they are – empaths. They sense the feelings of others as their own which makes them great listeners and trouble-solvers.
Empaths have one rare trait that makes them even more powerful – these people are experts in human psychology. They need just one look towards a person and they can tell immediately if that person is a liar, faker, or evil, so they can protect themselves before hand.

Below are 10 reasons why you should not ever get involved with an empath if you can’t handle their intense personality.

They are natural lie-detectors

This is often considered to be the most powerful gift that empaths have been blessed with. If someone lies to an empath, they will almost never get away with it. Empaths have many internal alarm signals for detecting lies.
Empaths have an innate ability to sense dishonesty and discomfort. Whether it is a big circle of lies or a harmless white-lie, the empath will always sense it.

They can sense jealousy

This means that the more you try to hide your envy, the more an empath will know that it exists. What’s more, they’ll probably be too kind to let you know that they know—so your conversation or friendship could rapidly turn into something meaningless and hollow.

You cannot fool them

As we said before, empaths perceive other people’s feelings, so there is no way you can fool them. They know a faker once they see it. When they sense that something is not right with a person, they just distance themselves as prevention.

They can sense hatred

Similar to the Jedi, empaths can also sense when someone is hiding their jealousy or hatred. If you pretend to be a friend with an empath, they won’t fall for it.
Empaths can tell when your feelings are changing.

They see your prejudices

Prejudice is a form of hatred, so empaths can detect these feelings and emotions from miles away as well. However, sometimes the offending individuals don’t realize they’re prejudice—so if you notice that all empaths flee from you, you might want to take stock of your morals and beliefs.

They know when you are not okay

I think everyone is familiar, or had a conversation when someone asked you if you were okay, and you said you were okay, even if deep down you were not. Maybe you wanted to hide your emotions in order to not have to explain why you are distressed, but an empath will know that you lied. And, they will ask why are you feeling that way and will offer you a listening ear and will try everything they can to help you.

They hate insincere flattery

There’s no need to flatter an empath in order to gain their help or approval—if you are a genuine person. But by the same token, if you do attempt to flatter them disingenuously then you’ll probably lose their respect forever.

They know when someone is on the wrong path

If you are lucky to have an empath as a friend, and they are trying to warn you about something that you are doing – listen to them. If they feel that something doesn’t add up, or feels strange to them – it is. Their intuition is so developed that they get this feeling usually when something is wrong.

They know when you pretend to be someone you are not

People act fake for many reasons. Most people are not trying to be malicious, they just don’t feel comfortable with where they are at in life. They’re hiding behind a fake identity because they don’t feel comfortable in their own skin.
Empaths can see that you are struggling to reach your true potential and want to help.

They can identify exploitation

Empaths are not naïve. They can see when someone is using them. They don’t tolerate any form of exploitation. If they see they are being used – they remove themselves quickly from the situation.

Oct 26, 2018

Facebook Group Cover Photo Size 2018: Free Template

Looking for the correct Facebook group cover photo size?

One that works on both desktop and mobile?
Like all Facebook cover photos, the one for groups changes frequently. And displays differently on various devices.
Facebook group cover photo size changed Nov 27, 2017 – and again a couple weeks later.
Facebook revealed the size on November 28. But it didn’t actually work then!
And it cropped differently on every device. But now…

Facebook Cover Photo sizes are many and varied

Facebook Cover Photo sizes are many and varied

This article deals strictly with group covers. But I have more in store! And I keep them updated.
For business pages, personal profiles, and events:
Read on for groups…

What Facebook says about Group Cover Photo size

According to Facebook, the ideal size is 1,640px by 856px, or 1.91:1 ratio. This did not work anywhere on November 27, 2017. But now it does – on mobile.
Although it’s actually 1,640px by 859px! Not sure why they state 856, which isn’t exactly 1.91:1, nor what displays.
After changing on November 27, Facebook changed cropping on mobile again in early December. I’ve updated the post and template.
You can simply use 1,640px by 859px, or 1.91:1 ratio, which will work fine on both phones and tablets – if you allow room for Facebook’s text overlay across the bottom.
Allow cropping top and bottom on desktop. Facebook isn’t allowing full control over the cropping on desktop. A portion of the top and bottom will be cropped.
These dimensions have been verified to work as of January 24, 2018. Facebook is even providing a similar template now! If you’re having problems, provide specifics in your comment.
The Facebook group cover photo size just changed. It crops differently on every device, so you'll want to use this template!

Why is my Facebook Group Cover Photo template 16:9?

I’m sticking with the 16:9 proportion because that’s a standard photo and video shape. You will lose a bit of height on mobile, and even more on desktop.
You should be able to find a 16:9 cropping template in any photo editing app, even free ones, like Photos on iOS. Refer to my template below as a visual guide for areas that may get cropped or covered by type.
If you go with Facebook’s suggested width of 1640, I’d make it 923 pixels tall, with the lower third kept clean for type. The exact amount covered by type will vary by number of lines in the overlay. If you’ve specified a location for your group, that adds a line on the iPhone app (but not on tablet, at this time).
Since Facebook isn’t allowing full control over the cropping on desktop, the updated template shows a default center crop.
Right-click to download template:
The Facebook group cover photo size just changed. It crops differently by device, so you'll want to use this template!

Instructions for using my social media templates

1. Open in Photoshop or other graphics editing program that has layers.
2. Change Image > Mode to RGB (the template is an indexed color PNG).
3. Add guidelines to match template, or use template as a translucent layer for guidance.
4. Delete template from image file when your design is done.

Group cover photo info from Facebook

Now this works! Mostly…
How do I upload a cover photo to my group?
Admins can upload or change cover photos for their group.
To upload a cover photo for the first time:
  • Click Upload Photo to upload a photo from your computer or click Choose Photo to choose from your Facebook photos or your group’s photos.
  • Click Save Changes.
Keep in mind that the recommended size for group cover photos is 1,640px by 856px (or 1.91:1 ratio). To change an existing cover photo, hover over the photo and click Change Group Photo.
Note: If the cover photo has never been set, group members may also be able to add a cover photo. If a group member sets the cover photo for a group, and later decides they would like to remove it, they will need to delete the photo in order to remove it as the group cover photo. source

Facebook Group Cover Photo display sizes

Here are the current sizes as measured on my devices, plus the previous sizes I saw on Nov. 27, 2017:
On desktop: 1025 x 415, which is a 2.47:1 aspect ratio. This has not changed since November.
On iPhone 7 Plus: 1242 x 650 or 1.91:1. WAS 1242 x 698, which is 1.78:1 ratio (or 16:9).
On iPad: 1192 x 624 or 1.91:1. WAS 1192 x 440, about 2.6:1.

Facebook Group Cover Photo problems?

Please remember that Facebook cover photos crop differently on desktop and mobile. There is simply NO one-size-fits-all solution.

The group cover photo dimensions have been verified to work as of January 24, 2018. Facebook is even providing a similar template on their Help page.
If you’re having problems, leave specifics in your comment. I can’t help if you simply say that my Facebook group cover photo size is too large. Explain the cropping problems you’re having and I’ll look into it.
The Facebook group cover photo size just changed. It crops differently on every device, so you'll want to use this template!

هندية تستخدم السائل المنوي لابنها المتوفي لتصبح جدة

راجاشير
حاربت المعلمة الهندية راجاشير باتيل، 49 عاما، ليكون لها أحفاد من ابنها الذي توفي منذ عامين بعد صراع مع السرطان عن طريق الاستعانة بأم بديلة تبلغ من العمر 35 سنة لتحمل توأما من عينة سائل منوي مخزنةلابنها الذي لم يتزوج قبل وفاته.
وقالت راجاشير إن حصولها على طفلين من ابنها المتوفى هي أفضل وسيلة لتشعر بالقرب من ولدها الذي سافر إلى ألمانيا للحصول على درجة الماجستير بعد دراسة الهندسة في كلية سينهغاد في الهند عام 2010.
وأصيب براثامش، ابن راجاشير، بورم في المخ عام 2013 توفي على إثره بعد ثلاث سنوات من العلاج دون طائل عام 2016، لكن السائل المنوي الخاص به حُفظ حتى تم الاستعانة بأم بديلة ليكون له ولد وبنت بعد وفاته.

براثامش ابن راجاشير

وقالت المعلمة الهندية لبي بي سي "لقد استعدت ابني براثامش فقد كنت مرتبطة به بقوة، لكنه سافر لنيل درجة الماجستير في الهندسة من ألمانيا لأنه كان متفوقا. وهناك شخص الأطباء حالته بأنها سرطان في المخ في مرحلة متأخرة حددها الأطباء بالخامسة."
وأضافت أن "الأطباء طلبوا من براثامش حفظ السائل المنوي الخاص به قبل البدء في العلاج الكيماوي والإشعاعي."
وفوض الابن، الذي لم يتزوج قبل وفاته، والدته وشقيقته دنياناشير لاستخدام عينة السائل المنوي الخاصة به بعد وفاته.

التوأمان براثامش وبريشا

ولم تكن الأم تدرك أن هذه هي الوسيلة التي "سوف تعيد إليها ابنها مرة ثانية بعد وفاته".
وبعد وفاة براثامش، عن عمر يناهز 27 سنة، رفضت الأم الحداد عليه وأصرت بدلا من ذلك على استخدام نطفته المحفوظة للحصول على طفل عبر أم بديلة.

صوبرية بورانيك


وولد التوأم في 12 فبراير/ شباط الجاري، وأطلقت الجدة لى الولد اسم ابنها براثامش في حين سميت البنت بريشا، وهي كلمة هندية تعني "هبة الله".
واستكملت الأم الهندية إجراءات الحصول على الإذن باستخدام منى ابنها المتوفى، مدفوعة بافتقادها له،لعملية تلقيح صناعي وافقت عليها مستشفى ساهيادري في بيون في الهند.
وقالت أخصائية التلقيح الصناعي في مستشفى ساهيادري صوبرية بورانيك إن عملية التلقيح الصناعي "اعتدنا على اجرائها في المستشفى"، لكنها وصفت هذه الحالة بالتحديد بأنها "فريدة لأنها تخص أم مكلومة أرادت أن تستعيد ذكرى ابنها المتوفى بأي ثمن"، مؤكدة أنها اتسمت "بإيجابية شديدة" على مدار فترة الحمل.

المصدر:BBC

China Denies Spying on Trump’s iPhone, Suggests He Should Switch to Huawei

China Denies Spying on Trump’s iPhone, Suggests He Should Switch to Huawei

Update: Trump – who has posted 39,400 tweets – has tweeted that he only uses government phones, and that he ‘seldom’ uses a cellphone.

A New York Times report yesterday suggested that both China and Russia are eavesdropping on Trump’s iPhone. The allegation is that Trump has two official iPhones, which are locked-down, and one personal one, which isn’t.

China has now denied tapping Trump’s iPhone, describing it as fake news. Amusingly, a government spokeswoman suggested that if Trump is concerned about the security of his iPhone, he could always switch to Huawei …

South China Morning Post carried the report.

If Trump is concerned about the security of his iPhone, he can consider switching over to a Huawei, or cut off communications altogether, Hua Chunying, the foreign ministry spokeswoman, said in response to a question about the Timesreport. She dismissed the report as another example of “fake news”.

“Seeing this report, I feel there are those in America who are working all-out to win the Oscar for best screenplay,” Hua said at the ministry’s regular briefing in Beijing on Thursday.

The suggestion is pure mischief: the US government blacklists Huawei products due to perceived security risks given the company’s strong ties to the Chinese government. Indeed, the heads of the CIA, FBI and NSA went so far as to warn all US citizens against using Huawei smartphones, so even for a man noted for ignoring the counsel of the security services, it seems unlikely Trump’s iPhone will be replaced by a Huawei model.

The original report is somewhat odd, given the inherent protections iPhones enjoy in the form of regular security updates and an App Store vetted by Apple. However, if Trump refuses to allow security agencies to secure his personal phone, it’s entirely possible he’s running a very outdated version of iOS for which exploits exist.

The NYT suggested that China was monitoring Trump’s iPhone to find out who influenced him, and what arguments sway him, as they seek to avoid any escalation of the administration’s trade war with China. Given that more than one book based on insider interviews has suggested that Trump tends to be swayed not by the best arguments, but rather by the most recent person to speak to him, that might be challenging even with a wire tap …

Back in the summer, Huawei claimed to be on track to overtake Apple in smartphone sales by some point next year. That was a bold claim, given the relative numbers at present, but the Chinese company is experiencing strong growth while iPhone sales are relatively flat. The Chinese brand did briefly overtake Apple one quarter last year, but that was in the quiet second quarter leading up to the launch of the iPhone X and iPhone 8/Plus.

Source: 9to5mac

First iPhone XR Pre-orders Arrive at Customers Around the World

After going up for pre-order last week, customers around the world are starting to receive their iPhone XR shipments. As the clock begins to turn to October 26th around the globe, iPhone XR pre-orders are arriving and sales of the device are starting at Apple stores.

Recipients of iPhone XR pre-orders thus far have taken to Twitter and Instagram to share their excitement about receiving the colorful new iPhone. Early posts show the device in a handful of its six colors – including yellow, black, and white.



3u Team also got the iPhone XR in different colors for testing the latest 3uTools, now users could connect iPhone XR with 3uTools immediately.

 First iPhone XR Pre-orders Arrive at Customers Around the World

 First iPhone XR Pre-orders Arrive at Customers Around the World

At this point, fanfare for the iPhone XR at global Apple stores seems less enthusiastic than past iPhone launches. This, however, is likely due to the fact that the iPhone XR remained available for launch day delivery for several days after pre-orders initially began last Friday.

Meanwhile, Tim Cook continued his trek through Europe this afternoon, stopping at an Apple store in Madrid. On Twitter, Cook shared an image from his visit to the store, saying that “teams here in Madrid and all around the world are gearing up for Friday’s launch of the iPhone XR.”

Did you pre-order the iPhone XR or are you panning to venture to your local Apple store to pick one up? Let us know down in the comments! As a refresher here are the countries in which the iPhone XR is launching tomorrow:

Albania, Andorra, Australia, Austria, Bahrain, Belgium, Bosnia, Bulgaria, Canada, China, Croatia, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Denmark, Estonia, Finland, France, Germany, Greece, Greenland, Guernsey, Herzegovina, Hong Kong, Hungary, Iceland, India, Ireland, Isle of Man, Italy, Japan, Jersey, Kosovo, Kuwait, Latvia, Liechtenstein, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Macedonia, Malta, Malaysia, Mexico, Monaco, Montenegro, Netherlands, New Zealand, Norway, Oman, Poland, Portugal, Puerto Rico, Qatar, Romania, Russia, Saudi Arabia, Singapore, Serbia, Slovakia, Slovenia, South Africa, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, Taiwan, Thailand, the UAE, UK, US and US Virgin Islands.

Source: 9to5mac

Oct 25, 2018

With iOS 12, GrayKey can no Longer Break iPhone Passcodes

With iOS 12, GrayKey can no Longer Break iPhone Passcodes

Earlier this year, Apple updated iOS to block passcode cracking tools like GrayKey (used by police and government law enforcement officers). But the original iOS 11.4.1 patch wasn’t perfect, with researchers still finding ways around it. That seems to have changed with the release of iOS 12 last month, which a recent Forbes report notes appears to have completely blocked the GrayKey tool, preventing it from cracking the password of any devices running the latest software.

GrayKey first made waves earlier this year as a tool specifically developed and sold to police departments to break passwords on iPhones for use in investigations. But now, instead of brute-forcing passwords, GrayKey is apparently limited to just a “partial extraction,” only offering access to unencrypted metadata like file sizes. Forbes doesn’t make it clear if the patch is something Apple has done recently, or if the improved block has been in place since iOS 12 was released in mid-September, but for now at least, it appears to have shut down GrayKey.

It’s also not clear what Apple’s done to lock out GrayKey this time. One forensic expert speculated to Forbes that “it could be everything from better kernel protection to stronger configuration-profile installation restrictions,” but no one seems to know for sure. But according to police officer Captain John Sherwin (from the Rochester Police Department in Minnesota), it’s a “fairly accurate assessment” to say that Apple has stopped GrayKey from unlocking updated devices.

Whatever Apple did to block GrayKey here, though, chances are that Grayshift — the company that develops GrayKey — is already looking for a workaround to continue to bypass Apple’s password systems.

Source: the verge

"جهينة" تعترف بوجود عيوب في لبن "بخيره" - E3lam.Org

"جهينة" تعترف بوجود عيوب في لبن "بخيره" - E3lam.Org

"جهينة" تعترف بوجود عيوب في لبن "بخيره" - E3lam.Org

منذ 5 ساعات
نشرت شركة “جهينة” للصناعات الغذائية، اعتذارًا لعملائها ممن وجدوا شوائب في بعض أكياس اللبن مؤخرًا، مؤكدة أنّها شكّلت لجنة لمتابعة أسباب وجود الشوائب في عبوات اللبن، بمجرد تناول وسائل الإعلام شكوى أحد المستهلكين من لبن “بخيره”.
كشفت “جهينة” في بيان أصدرته اليوم عن أسباب الشوائب، موضحة أنّ عملية تعقيم اللبن طويلة الأجل تتم على 120 درجة مئوية لمدة 4 ثوان، وحدثت هزة كهربية سريعة أدت إلى توقف الجهاز عن الإنتاج، ما أدى بدوره إلى تغيّر مكونات اللبن، وهو ما ظهر على هيئة رواسب في منتجات “بخيره”.
أضافت “جهينة” أنّ الرواسب التي ظهرت في بعض العبوات، لن تؤثر بأي شكل على صحة المواطنين بحسب ما أكدت الاختبارات المعملية، وتابعت: “الأمر يشبه غلي الألبان لوقت زائد في المنزل”.
أكدت “جهينة” التزامها الكامل بمعايير الصحة المصرية والعالمية، التي أكسبتها ثقة المستهلكين في مصر، كما وجّهت الدعوة لعملائها في حال وجود أي شكاوى أو استفسارات، بالتواصل مع خدمة العملاء على رقم 16630.

Find The Number of Animals in the Farm

Solve this riddle after reading the hints.

One farm contains the following animals;
1 cow gives 1 liter milk.
1 buffalo gives 5 liter milk and
4 goats give 1 liter milk.
You know that the number of liters of milk is equal to the number of animals in the farm.
Can you find the least number of animals the farm would have?


So were you able to solve the riddle? Leave your answers in the comment section below.
If you get the correct answer, please share it with your friends and family on WhatsApp, Facebook and other social networking sites.

Answer:




There will be 1 Cow + 3 Buffalo + 16 Goats
Milk : 1 liter (1 cow) + 15 Liters(3 Buffalo) + 4 Liters(16 Goats)
So Milk: 20 Liters and Animals: 20 (1 + 3 + 16)

7 Reasons You Should Cut Toxic People From Your Life, Even If They Are Family

Toxic people thrive for drama and expect you to be a part of it. But you always have the power to step back and say “no more.”
Toxic people are emotional vampires. Their constant presence negatively impacts the way you think and act. It’s good to be compassionate and generous to people who really need it, however, toxic people will take advantage of this nature and emotionally scar you if you’re not careful.
It’s important to identify these negative individuals and cut them off as soon as possible. Here’s how you know.

1. They Emotionally Exhaust You


Have you ever spent time with a friend or family member and feel exhausted after that? If the answer is yes, then you’ve got a toxic person on hand. Toxic people have an uncanny knack for draining you emotionally. This they do with their woe-is-me stories or through constant backbiting of another person that you don’t really have an issue with. However, they are all about themselves, so don’t expect anything in return. If you know such a person or family member, then it’s time cut ties with them.

2. They Can’t Stand It If You’re Successful


Toxic people thrive when you are miserable. Should they smell a hint of success or anything good in your life, they are quick to point out your mistakes, criticize every move you make, and even publicly pick on your vulnerable side to make you feel inadequate. They do this because they are jealous of you, and want you to look small in front of them. Do you really need this kind of person in your life? You’re better off without them.

3. They emotionally manipulate you



Toxic people are skillful manipulators with an ulterior motive. They have no qualms about using your good nature to get whatever they want. They are masters of half-truths and deception, and not to mention great actors. With them, there is no winning because you will always be the bad guy in their eyes (and others who they spread their stories too) conveniently forgetting the drama that they’ve created but expect you to be responsible for.

4. They guilt-trip you

They love to be the center of attention and create a lot of drama and chaos in their life. And then suck you right into it. Any minor problem is blown out of proportion or they constantly whine about the situation they are currently in. They then expect you to solve the problems for them, and be at their beck and call. Should you not be available to them, they use their favorite tactic: guilt-tripping.

5. They hurting you without remorse


Toxic people are only concerned about themselves and are user-friendly. They have no problems reaching out to you when they need something, and once you’ve given it to them, they disappear; only to later reappear when they need another problem to be solved or need something from you. This will not only hurt you but leave you feeling miserable and used. Reciprocity is an unfamiliar concept to them.

6. Toxic people will try to bring you down when you’re feeling good…



You’ve heard it a million times: Misery loves company. Insecure and unhappy people won’t root for your success. Instead, they’ll respond to your exciting news or positive mindset by pointing out everything that could go wrong. When this happens, keep in mind that their reaction is likely born out of envy and deep dissatisfaction with their own situations.
But just because you empathize with their negativity doesn’t mean you have to deal with it. Next time you have some good news, avoid these downers and don’t let anyone put a damper on your shine.

7. … But won’t ever lift you up when you’re feeling down.

As we’ve previously established, misery loves company. When you find yourself going through a tough time, toxic people will commiserate with you and amplify your despair instead of pointing out the bright side of your situation.
Whether you’re going through a breakup or dealing with a problem at work, you deserve to confide in people whose main priorities are encouraging and uplifting you in the midst of hardship — not reveling in your gloom.

Spot The Difference Between Two Pictures.

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Answer: One is A and one is B.


Source: http://selfiequiz.com

Here’s What Kind Of Mom You REALLY Are, According To Your Zodiac Sign

What mom-to-be hasn’t wondered what kind of parent she’ll be? Sure, you can read the baby books and come up with the beginnings of a parenting strategy, but the answer to your question might actually be written in the stars. Some say your astrological sign, based on how the planets and stars were aligned on the day you were born, can predict a whole range of personality traits—including your natural approach to parenting.
We turned to New York City-based astrologer Angel Eyedealism, who’s been giving readings from Manhattan’s East Village for over two decades, to get the inside scoop on what the zodiac says. For precise insights, she’d need details like the time and place of your birth, but these general predictions, based on sun signs, offer a peek into what kind of mom you may turn out to be.

SAGITTARIUS (NOVEMBER 22—DECEMBER 21)


“Sagittarius moms love the great outdoors and are definitely not inclined to be couch potatoes. The first shoes she’s going to buy for her kids are hiking boots,” Angel says. “As a fire sign, they’re not known to be the most patient, but they’re very good natured people, so when they lose their temper, they get over it quickly.” Sagittarius moms also tend to be forward-thinking and action-oriented, and raise their kids to be optimistic and colorful. ”Since Sagittarius is the sign of travel, they want to show their children the world and teach them to broaden their horizons through hands-on learning,” she adds. “Instead of just Googling the pyramids, she would actually take the kids to see them in person.”

CAPRICORN (DECEMBER 22—JANUARY 19)


“The ball-busters of the zodiac, Capricorns tend to be strict disciplinarians,” Angel says. “They’re always concerned with boundaries and rules and regulations, and tend to be very black and white in their views. It doesn’t mean they can’t be good mothers, but they need to soften up a bit. They’re not always the most nurturing, but they’re responsible, reliable and very hard working, and teach their children the importance of gaining people’s respect and earning their living. A Capricorn mom typically has a very strong moral compass and would instill clear moral values in her child.”

AQUARIUS (JANUARY 20—FEBRUARY 18)


“The geniuses of the zodiac, Aquarius moms can be wacky, wild and brilliant. As brainiacs, they bring intellectualism to motherhood and would encourage their kids to be well-educated and follow their dreams,” Angel says. Aquarians thrive on individualism and tend to be a bit rebellious—and often foster that rebellious streak in their kids, spurring them to challenge the status quo and make a difference in the world. “They typically want to be friends with everybody, so moms with this sign might be in danger of being more of a friend to their child than a parent. They’ll need to assert themselves and prove they’re the authority figure in the mix.”

PISCES (FEBRUARY 19—MARCH 20)


“Perhaps the least practical of all signs, Pisces are more about instincts and feelings, and are very gentle, kind and compassionate. They’re super-sensitive to their children’s needs, but they also need to be reminded that kids need to learn things for themselves,” Angel says. “Pisces moms tend to be creative and musical, and encourage artistic endeavors for their kids. But they don’t have a good memory and often space out and forget things, so there should be somebody in the parental mix who can bring things down to earth and remind her of more practical matters.”

ARIES (MARCH 21—APRIL 19)


Ruled by Mars, Aries are the most action-oriented of the zodiac signs. “Aries moms are constantly on-the-go,” Angel says. “They typically encourage their kids to play sports and enjoy outdoor activities, and usually join in too.” As do-it-all kinds of moms, they’re known for not asking for help, she says, so if you’re an Aries, you’ll need to learn to delegate. “Aries women also tend to be bold and progressive, and are known for tough love. They’re the least domestic of all the signs and not the most patient, so when necessary, remind yourself to count to 10.”

TAURUS (APRIL 20—MAY 20)


“Tauruses are the most gentle, nurturing and patient of the signs, and make for very loving mothers,” Angel says. “They’re also the most materialistic sign, so a Taurus mom will want to surround her children with as much affluence as she can afford. She’ll always have money, food and shelter covered. Stubborn and practical, she’ll also want to teach her kids marketable skills for when they go off into the world.”

GEMINI (MAY 21—JUNE 20)


“Gemini moms tend to be chatty and very bright, but a little on the scattered side,” according to Angel. “They tend to be like children themselves—fun, playful, versatile, interesting and all over the place. Their ruling planet is Mercury, so they can be mercurial and inconsistent in mood, and need to learn how to be more stable and consistent in their parenting.” Quick-witted and intellectual, Geminis also tend to be excellent students and have thirsty minds, she says, and encourage their kids to learn as much as they can.

CANCER (JUNE 21—JULY 22)


“Cancers are the mothers of the zodiac—they are mother to everything and everyone,” Angel says. “They’re generally shy people but come alive in a home environment. They are often excellent cooks and teach their children the bliss of domesticity. Cancers also tend to be on the passive side, and need to encourage their kids to stand up for themselves. But they’ll transform into streetfighters to protect their young. Sometimes overprotective, they can veer toward smothering their kids, so learning to give them room to grow is important.”

LEO (JULY 23—AUGUST 22)


“Leos are kids at heart and need a huge amount of attention. They tend to be a little on the narcissistic side, so while they can make good mothers, it’s important for them set aside their ego and learn to nurture their child,” Angel says. “They can be dramatic, but they can also be warm, generous and very creative. Leos can also sometimes get competitive with their kids and aren’t known for being super-responsible, but they’re fun parents.”

VIRGO (AUGUST 23—SEPTEMBER 22)


“Virgos are the control freaks of the zodiac, so they have to be careful about being overly critical and learn to offer constructive criticism,” Angel says. “The classic Virgo is a bit of a germaphobe and is obsessed with cleanliness for their kids. They can also be hypochondriacs, so they have to be careful not to freak out every time their child has a cough or fever.” Virgos are also known for their intelligence and practicality, and are eager to pass on the same values in their kids. “They’re usually excellent at math and make good business people, and teach their children to be frugal and careful with their finances.”

LIBRA (SEPTEMBER 23—OCTOBER 22)


“Libras are perhaps the most selfless sign, which is an important quality for mothers. They’re also gracious and grateful, so they’ll raise their children to have good manners and to be thoughtful and considerate of others,” Angel says. “Libras are famous for their indecisiveness—they think about every single aspect of the equation, and want the best for their kids. They strive to provide beautiful homes for their children and want them to go to university and broaden their horizons, both intellectually and culturally.”

SCORPIO (OCTOBER 23—NOVEMBER 21)


“Scorpios make excellent mothers,” Angel says. They tend to be intense, passionate people who commit to things 300 percent—especially when it comes to raising their kids. As all-or-nothing kind of people, she says, Scorpios often need to learn to embrace moderation and rein in their tendency to be stubborn, suspicious and jealous. They don’t trust easily, but when they do, Scorpios prove to be incredibly loyal. “The most observant sign, Scorpios are always watching and use their eagle-eyes to protect their children—but they see so much that it tends to make them edgy,” Angel adds. “They can use that to teach their kids the importance of trusting their instincts and how to get in touch with their creative impulses.”
Source: https://www.thebump.com

7 Signs You’re Headed for a Nervous Breakdown

I’m having a nervous breakdown. You may utter this (or at least think it) when you’re overwrought and ready to snap. But what is a nervous breakdown, exactly? And what should you do when you feel like you’re about to fall apart?
It turns out “nervous breakdown” isn’t a clinical term. And it’s not considered a mental illness, says Erin Engle, PsyD, assistant professor of medical psychology in psychiatry at Columbia University Medical Center. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t a serious issue. “[A nervous breakdown] is a situation in which a person cannot function normally because of overwhelming stress,” Engle says.
That stressor can be anything from a bad break-up or money issues to grief or psychological burnout. The symptoms will vary from person to person. “Our bodies and minds respond to stress in different ways,” Engle explains. But here are a few typical signs of a nervous breakdown:

1. Symptoms of anxiety and depression


“Anxiety and depression are common, common reactions [to stress],” says Engle. “Where you get into problems is when that stressor is ongoing and persistent, and the person’s coping resources are overwhelmed.” If you’re headed for a nervous breakdown, you might feel weepy, or even experience episodes of uncontrollable crying, says Engle. Some people suddenly struggle with self-esteem and confidence. “Feeling guilt is a big one,” she adds.

2. Sleeping too much, or not enough

A change in your sleep habits is another warning sign, says Engle. “Some people find that they go into sleep overdrive,” she says. “Sleep becomes an escape.” Others may develop insomnia because their brain is in overdrive. They may lay awake at night ruminating, she says, “mentally rehearsing situations over and over again that have no solution.”

3. Fatigue

Extreme tiredness could also be a clue you’re stressed to the max. You might even feel weakness in your body, Engle says. Activities you previously handled with ease may become increasingly difficult. And things that used to bring you joy may lose their appeal. That includes sex, Engle adds. Loss of libido is commonly linked to stress.

4. Changes in appetite


“Maybe you’re not eating, or conversely, you might be overeating,” says Engle. The stress hormone cortisol can trigger cravings for high-fat, high-sugar foods. What’s more, when you’re in the middle of a breakdown, you may be less motivated to prep healthy meals. “There’s less ability to care for oneself in the way one typically would,” says Engle.

5. Physical pain

Think headaches, or stomachaches. “For some people there might be a GI component,” says Engle, such as diarrhea or constipation. It’s no secret stress can do a number on your gut. It’s known to cause a variety of problems with digestion.

6. Brain fog

Are you having trouble concentrating? Or just feel like you’re not thinking clearly? There are often cognitive symptoms with a nervous breakdown, says Engle, which might include anything from difficulty with problem-solving and indecisiveness to a sense of disorientation and memory loss.

7. Trouble breathing

Keep an eye out for classic signs of anxiety too, such as tightness in your chest and rapid breathing. Taking quick, shallow breaths can ramp up the body’s stress response even more. A breathing exercise designed to slow down your breath can provide fast relief. But if you experience trouble breathing on a regular basis, it’s important to address the root of the problem.

Ok, so you might be having a breakdown. What next?

Now is the time to prioritize self-care. Engage in healthy coping mechanisms that work for you. (Maybe exercise helps you blow off steam, for example, or your favorite hobby helps you unwind.) Talk with family members or friends you trust. And don’t be afraid to seek professional help: “I always encourage someone to seek out the chance to speak with, or meet with, either a therapist, a psychologist or a social worker—but a licensed mental health professional,” Engle says. “Going to get help is one of the most important things you can do.”
Source: https://www.health.com

5 Signs You Are Afraid Of Being In A Relationship

I am going to name six of the most common signs, signs that will tell you that you’re afraid of being in love, you’re afraid of being in a relationship with someone other than yourself, and I’m also going to help you get rid of those fears and move on with your life in a healthy way. Let’s begin.

5. You haven’t made peace with your past

One of the most basic reasons why people are scared to be in a relationship is because they’re still haunted by certain events of their past, events that hurt them in such traumatic ways that it’s very hard for them to come back to how they once used to be. Even the slightest or tiniest trigger can tick you off and bring you back into that state of fear and depression, as long as you let it have that power over you, and it’s not going to heal, not unless you do something about it.
The Fix
The fix here is to make peace with your past. I’ve been there, I’ve had a phase in my life where I went back and forth and I hated it. But I slowly helped myself get out of that phase, the memories, the hurt, the pain, the loss, everything bad that happened to me in the past was a cruel reminder in the present and was making me unable to have a happy future.
So I fixed it, by making friends with my past, by accepting my mistakes, by making amends, by apologizing to the people who I’d hurt in any way, by having proper closure with all of my past demons. That’s something you need to do if you want to move on with your life and be with someone who will love you more than you can ever imagine.

4. You don’t think you can trust again

They say trust is the hardest thing to make and the easiest thing to break, they’re right. It could take years to build the perfect trust between two people and it can take mere seconds to break that trust into a million pieces. The fear here is to get hurt again, to get your trust broken again after working on it for so long. But only you can help yourself here, no one else can do anything for you no matter how much love and care they have for you, you’ll still be in your insecure and scared state until you finally decide to come out of it on your own.
The key here is to NEVER rely on someone else to help you regain your trust back, do it yourself.
The Fix
The fix here is to understand that whatever happened with you in your past was because of someone else, no two individuals are the same in this world and there are a LOT of individuals, so the chances of your trust being broken again are very tiny. You need to take the risk, you need to tell yourself that you WILL let this new person get their fair chance, their own chance to prove that there are still good people in this world, people who care just as much as you do or maybe more.

3. You think you’ll be trapped

Another common fear is when people think they’ll be trapped the second they commit to someone. This fear is developed because of a lot of reasons, be it past experience or the experience of others. When you see a friend of yours dating someone, and they keep telling you how much they hate it, how much they miss the single life, how much they wish they were alone right now, these are the common triggers that scare you off from committing yourself to someone who truly deserves to be with you.
The Fix
The fix here is to remember that a relationship is NOT about being trapped, it’s not about control, it’s not about molding someone into what you want them to be, relationships are about enhancement, relationships are a blessing. Don’t be with someone who tries to change you, don’t be with someone who tries to impose a lot of ideas and rules over your life, be with the person who loves you for whoever you are and keeps on enhancing that person in you.

2. You’re scared of breaking up

A lot of people don’t get into relationships because they’ve seen too many people breaking up and they can sense the pain those people felt when they went through the break ups. Of course, break ups hurt, they hurt for a long period of time, but it doesn’t mean they’re “mandatory” for every relationship. People break up when they don’t want to work on each other anymore, because real relationships require constant work and constant effort, something people don’t realize from the start and they hate it when they find out later on.
The Fix
The fix here is to not be scared of breaking up with the person you love, the fix here is to remove the term “breaking up” from your vocab. I love my girlfriend, and no matter how much we fight or differentiate, we always tell each other that we’ll work it out, and we always do. That’s what relationships are all about, to never give up on the person you love because if you truly love them, you’ll love them enough to put every effort you have on them regardless.

1. You’re afraid of sharing your time with someone

Most people run away from relationships because they think they are too time consuming and they’ll divide all the time you have into pieces, it’s not like that. Relationships are about two people sharing a life together, the time spent together becomes time shared and it enhances it in every way. It’s a common misconception today that once you get involved with someone, you’re going to have to give all of your time to them, that’s not how relationships work and that’s something you need to stop being scared of.
The Fix
The fix here is to remember that you’re not the only person who’s going to share their time with someone, someone else is going to share their time with you in return. Relationships are all about give and take, regardless of the ratio. No one is busy in this world, it’s all about priorities and time is the best gift you can give someone. And if they love you enough to give their time to you, you should happily do the same to them.
Source: https://www.relrules.com

9 Secrets To Become The Woman No Man Would Ever Want To Leave

Falling in love is easy, staying in love… well that can be a bit tricky.
At the beginning everything seems heavenly. It’s easy to be around this new person, getting to know them closely, learning about their habits, flaws and virtues. However things sometimes get cold and distant. So in order to prevent your relationship from falling apart, we have a few suggestions.

Well, I think the title says it all. Read on to find out!

1. Keep Your Cool

No one really likes a howler or a screamer. Men get especially annoyed when their girlfriends make a big deal out of everything and it becomes impossible to have a conversation with them because they are always freaking out about one thing or the other. Practice being calm and composed and voila!

2. Show Your Intelligence

Men love smart women, so don’t hold back your intelligence. Spark a laughter using your wits, and you will make your relationship even more interesting.

3. Be Honest

Dishonesty is not good for any relationship. So, as you want an honest partner, so does he. Honesty means trust, and trust is a strong foundation of a healthy relationship. Be open to him and he will appreciate it.

4. Be Affectionate and Caring

Everyone craves for care and affection in a relationship. Men love women who are not ashamed to show their concern and care. So, show him your support and care.

5. Be Supportive

He will always need you to stand by him so do oblige. Men have a hard time accepting that they are under confident about something so read between the lines and make sure he never feels alone.

6. Keep Your Humor

Being witty just makes you more charming and fun to be around. If you make him laugh, he is going to want to spend as much time with you as he possibly can and he is not gonna ever want to let you go.

7. Be Romantic

Steal a kiss from your man while working in the room or give him one when he least expects it. Also, do not stop flirting with him so that you keep the romance alive in your relationship.
Sometimes you can make him his favorite dish. Believe us, he will love these kind and romantic gestures which will bring him closer to you.

8. Be Confident

If you respect yourself, your man will also respect you. But, don’t mix self-respect with ego, as they are two opposite things. Men love confident women, so if your self-confidence is a bit shaky, work on it until you boost it.

9. Keep the Secrets to Yourself

Men appreciate women who keep the secrets between the two of them. So, don’t share them with your friends as he may feel uncomfortable when hearing others know about your secrets. Show him he can trust you, and don’t let him down.
We hope these tips will help you keep the man of your dream by your side, as well as improve your relationship. Don’t give up!

When A Woman Says Enough Is Enough, She Isn’t Going To Change Her Mind

Typically, women tend to be a very forgiving and patient gender. They are usually able to take a lot of terrible treatment from people before they actually blow their lid – especially compared to how men handle these types of situations. However, it also gets to a point when a woman’s tolerance can only go so far. Her patience wears thin – and once that breaks, there is just no going back.

Usually, women are known to be very fickle-minded and indecisive. They are so forgiving of people to the point that they tolerate terrible behavior over and over again. But once a woman’s limits are reached, then it’s a permanent goodbye. She isn’t going to be indecisive.


She isn’t going to be fickle-minded anymore. Once she decides that he has had enough of you, then she is going to walk away. You are never going to see her in your life again. And there will be nothing that you could possibly do to change that.

This is especially true as far as dating is concerned. A woman can have seemingly limitless patience at the start. She can watch you screw up on her time and time again. You could do so many wrong things to her, make her feel bad, but still, she will find a way to forgive you and move past your shortcomings.

But once she decides that she won’t be able to tolerate your failures anymore, then she’s going to leave you. And you aren’t going to be able to do anything to change her mind. And that’s why you need to make sure that you don’t take your woman’s patience for granted.

You need to make sure that you always treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. Don’t be so overconfident at how patient she is with you all of the time. Patience doesn’t always last. You only get so many shots with her.



However, before you lose her for good, you always have a chance to change her mind before it’s too late. If she’s starting to grow tired of you, you can still make a change in how you treat her to make her believe in you again. You still have a chance to repair whatever bonds you might have damaged and broken with your clumsiness and recklessness.


So that’s why you constantly need to stay on top of your game in your relationship with her. You always have to make sure that you are treating her right and that you are doing your absolute best to keep her in your life – because that’s what she deserves: nothing less than your best.

So fix yourself before it’s too late; before you lose her for good. Don’t be so cocky to think that you’re going to be able to win her back eventually. Don’t be so naïve so as to believe that you will be able to make her go back on her decision to leave you. It doesn’t work like that and here’s why.

It wasn’t easy for her to let you go, but she did so anyway. And she knows just how difficult that process is. So she’s never going to allow herself to go back to square one. She isn’t going to put herself in a position to have to go trough such a difficult experience ever again. Detachment is no easy feat – and once she has detached herself from you completely, that’s it. She’s never going to attach herself to you again.

She’s not coming back because she’s looking ahead. To her, you are just a speck in the rearview mirror. You are just a minor detail in her personal history. You are not something that is worth looking back on because her eyes are towards the future. She is looking far ahead and you’re nowhere to be seen.


And you never really gave her much reason to stay with you in the first place. So what is leading you to believe that she is going to be able to find reasons to actually make her way back to you after leaving you? She has given you so many chances in the past and you just blew them all away. There is nothing that is going to be able to convince her that the next chance she gives you is going to be one that’s worth making.

And while it may be difficult for her to leave you at first, it gets easy fairly quickly. Once she gets her rhythm going, she isn’t going to be too concerned about leaving you behind anymore. She will be far too focused on what she’s doing with her life. And she won’t pay you any mind.


And as tempting as it might be to give things another try with you, there’s just no denying the beauty of a fresh start. That’s precisely what this experience is giving her. When she left you, she gave herself a fresh start. And she’s not going to want to leave that behind just to go back to you.