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I was laying in my bed last night, pondering on all the times I have been told I am “too much.” I am the woman who sometimes wonders if she is too much to handle, too much to hold, too hard to love, too much to be with. Men seem to be attracted to the idea of me. I am an attractive, independent, kind-hearted woman, but when they start to dig deeper, then all of the sudden I am just “too much.” It seems like I look good on paper but I am too much to actually be with in real life because it requires these men to do things that they aren’t ready to do: to grow, to work harder, and to think outside the box. I have lost count of how many times I have been told these words. You ARE too much. You’re too opinionated, too blunt, too bold, too loud, too direct, too sexy, too bossy, too bitchy, too emotional, too moody, too funny, too crazy, too mean, too nice. But you know what? I am proud of being a “too much woman” because I never half-ass anything. I am the one who lov

Falling in love is easy, staying in love… well that can be a bit tricky. At the beginning everything seems heavenly. It’s easy to be around this new person, getting to know them closely, learning about their habits, flaws and virtues. However things sometimes get cold and distant. So in order to prevent your relationship from falling apart, we have a few suggestions. Well, I think the title says it all. Read on to find out! 1. Keep Your Cool No one really likes a howler or a screamer. Men get especially annoyed when their girlfriends make a big deal out of everything and it becomes impossible to have a conversation with them because they are always freaking out about one thing or the other. Practice being calm and composed and voila! 2. Show Your Intelligence Men love smart women, so don’t hold back your intelligence. Spark a laughter using your wits, and you will make your relationship even more interesting. 3. Be Honest Dishonesty is not good for any rela

Typically, women tend to be a very forgiving and patient gender. They are usually able to take a lot of terrible treatment from people before they actually blow their lid – especially compared to how men handle these types of situations. However, it also gets to a point when a woman’s tolerance can only go so far. Her patience wears thin – and once that breaks, there is just no going back. Usually, women are known to be very fickle-minded and indecisive. They are so forgiving of people to the point that they tolerate terrible behavior over and over again. But once a woman’s limits are reached, then it’s a permanent goodbye. She isn’t going to be indecisive. She isn’t going to be fickle-minded anymore. Once she decides that he has had enough of you, then she is going to walk away. You are never going to see her in your life again. And there will be nothing that you could possibly do to change that. This is especially true as far as dating is concerned. A woman

Have you ever sat across the table from a man and wondered what draws him to you? You know you look good and you think that is the only reason he likes you. The fact is it goes deeper than just looks. Here are things men are after in women: 1. Independence No real man wants to babysit you. Don’t be too needy, or you will chase him away. As much as you are in a relationship, retain your identity and continue being yourself. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you transfer all your needs to your man. 2. Honesty Trust in a relationship is everything. Lying to your man makes it hard for him to trust you. You might think the lie is small and harmless, but with time, it breaks down the trust that exists between the two of you. Lack of trust also builds a wall between you and that engagement ring. Make sure you keep all your interactions open and honest. Don’t hide things from him, because one day he might find out and the relationship goes down the drain. 3. Suppo

She is a strong-willed and passionate woman who doesn’t let anything affect her. She goes through life sliding through all sorts of problems. Heartaches. Failed, dysfunctional relationships. Disappointments. Mistakes. Yet, you still see her with a glistening smile going about her day, like nothing ever happened. She is the woman who instantly cheers you up with her beautiful smile.The girl who brightens up your day and seems like she has an infinite amount of love for everything around her. The woman who carries the burden of this world yet looks like she hasn’t got a single care on her mind. People look at her and think she has it all. She’s got her life together. Because she’s strong and successful. But little do they know, that’s exactly what she decides to display of her. Yes, she appears to have a rock-solid heart and an I-can-do-it attitude, but that’s the side of her she allows others to see. She seems unbreakable, but not a single person knows what it feels

Parents coach their sons to present a facade of emotional toughness and their daughters to admire that facade in men. There is a commonly held cultural narrative which goes something like this: Men who share their emotions make better husbands and fathers. Women value this in a prospective partner because women are already naturally able to share their emotions. In a nutshell, women are the emotionally able ones, men can learn to be. Growing more empowered relational capacities for men and women is crucial to making a better world. But the first step to getting there is to set aside these kinds of simplistic ideas about how we all operate emotionally and relationally. So, for the record, women do not automatically navigate emotional expression better than men. It would be nice if they did, but given how our culture operates, it is simply not possible. We need to acknowledge that gaining relational intelligence, the ability to navigate our shared emotional landscapes,

Dear boss ladies, fearless warriors, badass women, you make this world go round. You are the reason why we keep fighting. You are the light in the darkness. The motivation that keeps us going. The people who bring back our lost hopes and dreams. But, no matter how much people try to put you down and make you feel worthless, never stop fighting. I know that sometimes it is hard to persevere in this cruel world. So, please. Stay true to yourself and never apologize… 1. For being too strong They have no idea what you’ve been through. They don’t know the depths of your soul, dear. They’ve never experienced the hell you survived. They simply don’t know your struggle. They think they can judge your book by its cover, but they’re mistaken. Don’t ever let them underestimate you. I know how much you’ve suffered. You deserve everything and more. 2. For loving yourself more than anything else in the world Don’t ever let them convince you that what you’re doing is selfish.

Have you ever entered a relationship convinced that the script of you guys meeting each other was written in heaven? Have you ever so deeply loved a person that you were confident that you would never love anyone that way – ever again? Well that was precisely what happened to me. But as you can tell from the topic, it wasn’t meant to be, and my romantic dreams were dashed for good. By the time I had left the relationship, I was nothing like my former self. The world was all grey and shadows. Love and happiness were no longer what I believed in; it was just like those fairy tales that my parents would tell me when I was a kid. I was awash with sadness loneliness and depression. I would find it hard to stay in charge and control of my life. Of course, I spent many weeks with terrible thoughts and wet pillows. The grief and pain took so long to heal that at one point I began to believe that I would never be able to pick up the broken pieces of my heart. Not to menti

Researchers at the Oxford University have released the results of a research that suggests that women who welded bigger behinds had lower risks of coming down with diseases. It also went on to say that such women turned out to be smarter than their counterparts. Isn’t that interesting? Well, they went ahead to say that women with bigger butts had lower levels of cholesterol which in turn meant that their hormones help them to burn sugar quickly. They also went on to suggest that women with larger behinds were at lower risks of developing cardiac conditions, diabetes and similar diseases that are related to the unhealthy amounts of cholesterol ingested and inherent in the body. The reason for this? The large deposits of Omega 3 Acids that are present in these women’s bodies. These minerals that are naturally gifted this women, all help improve the brain function of these women. The Greek Professor, Konstantinos Manolopoulos – who also doubles as the leade

When it comes to the matters of the heart, men are not always open and transparent about it. Often times, they are too shy to make a move or say what they feel. While men can hide their emotions from words, their body language often gives away what they feel. Here are 11 physical gestures that you are likely to see if the guy is in love with you. 1. He blinks rapidly If he blinks more rapidly than usual when he is around you, it shows excitement. The normal blinking rate of an average human is 20 blinks a minute, but if you notice him blinking several times than that, it’s safe to say he is into you. 2. He walks at your pace If a man is interested in you, he will try to walk beside you. It’s a subconscious expression of saying that he wants to be recognized as someone who can be in sync with you. If you find him trying to change his pace to match yours, it’s a sign that he has feelings for you. 3. He smiles widely when he sees you Guys tend to show their fro

Everything you think about the other woman is wrong. Discovering that your husband has cheated can be one of the most devastating moments in your life. Finding out that you have been basically living a lie can come as an overwhelming shock. Between deciphering the truth from the lies, and seeing all the signs that you missed, you feel like nothing short of a fool. Not to mention you feel compared to this other woman, who, in your mind, has almost developed superpowers. This is where you need to gain some clarity and insight to see her for who she truly is and what it’s like being the other woman. But along with that, it’s important to bust a few myths you may have been fed: 1. She must be amazing. Let’s face it: this woman’s moral compass doesn’t exactly point north if she is actively involved with a married man. Worse yet, one with a family. This shows a very self-seeking disposition. So, basically, short of committing murder, you probably can’t top her own spe

;Strong women, independent women, assertive women; intelligent women, bold women and outspoken women; are in the average guys “do not date” handbook. Men feel that a woman who knows what she wants is too much work or at least that’s what they say. I say that they feel intimidated by the thought of a woman who is a go-getter, who has a strong awareness of herself; who knows exactly what she is worth and would never settle for less than that; a woman who takes no prisoners. I mean these women are perfect compliments to any man who recognizes quality; and goes for nothing less than that. Strong women, in particular, are very adept at withstanding tough times and are ever ready to make sacrifices to get what they want. What better choice of partner for a man than someone who would not go running for the hills at the very first sign of trouble. That a woman is strong does not mean that she is physically strong; although she might be, a strong woman is a woman who has a stron

Because strong women aren’t afraid to be alone, they don’t need to date in order to be genuinely happy and at peace in life. This sounds simple and easy enough, but it really is a rare characteristic; in fact, it might have more to do with true freedom than any other single thing. When dating becomes selective rather than common place, it becomes more valuable and meaningful, and—ironically—time spent not dating becomes more valuable, meaningful, and fulfilling as well. Indeed, the benefits of independence and dignity really can’t be fully expressed in words alone. Of course, it’s far easier to want to be a strong woman or to think about being a strong women than it is to actually be one. Strong women must be able to realize when someone’s attempting to deceive them, and to realize when someone might already be deceiving them in some way; they must be aware of what the people they’re interacting with say and do to other individuals aside from themselves, especially w

Have you ever wondered why so many smart and gorgeous women are single? They are not high maintenance, but down-to-earth, sociable, and caring. So why are they still rolling solo? Well, they’re single not because they think too highly of themselves or consider themselves to be superior to the rest, but because they have a hard time finding guys worthy of their love and respect. It’s not that they are afraid of heartache, failure, or repeating past mistakes. Or that they’re only interested in pursuing their career goals and climbing up the social ladder. No. It’s their intellectual abilities and high self-esteem that prevents them from getting into a relationship with someone just for the sake of it. A super smart and attractive woman doesn’t want to waste her time and energy on a guy who can’t keep up with her in all aspects of life. Being with someone who lacks confidence and feelings of affection, and who doesn’t bother to commit is out of the question.

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