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6 Reasons Men Leave The Women They Love

Why men leave women they love instead of sticking around and repairing their relationships. Once a man feels alone in a relationship he begins to fall out of love and look around for someone else to meet his emotional needs.
Women tend to try to “repair” the man they are in relationship with. Once a woman feels she does not get what she deserves from her Man, she will often start asking to change.
Instead of communicating her needs in an effective and calm way, she can nag her man. Over time, this pressure to change is a powerful motivator for a man to move from the relationship.
The way man see it is that if it can not make you consistently happy, then there is no reason to stay with you. Failure to engage in his desire to become someone else than who he really is will eventually become too much to take.
Men know they are not born with the innate understanding of how women operate. Sometimes they are just simple fact.

1. She nags all the time.

People can get the woman out of the voice for the most part of time. Unfortunately, constant nagging and weakness can have a relationship in a relationship. Men can play as children, but they are not children. They do not tolerate constant culling and complaining. Men need to feel appreciated. Nagging forms a negative habit that is eventually ignored and avoided. It adds to the negative reinforcement that becomes aggressive passive.
If he knows he’s gonna give him pain, he will not. Anyway, he feels he’ll cry. If there is no appreciation, it does not do what she wants. For a man, a woman who is born is the least sexy creature on the planet.

2. Lack of intimacy.

Believe it or not, men crave intimacy just as much as women. But, if a man has to beg for it while the woman holds it hostage to get him to do things, he may leave the relationship to seek that connection with someone else.
A man will not stand by too long with a woman who will not participate in intimate encounters with their partner. A man falls in love with a woman for many reasons, but he also needs to feel that he is the most attractive person in her life.

3. He feels that she’s trying to fix him.

Men hate being “fixed” – they look great in their own image, even with all the flaws. On the other hand, some women see men with flaws as a project, so as soon as they feel comfortable in the relationship, they begin fixing them. Men hate this – they know all their flaws, but when a woman identifies them and starts working on them, they immediately begin looking for an exit strategy.
As the great Albert Einstein ones said, “Men marry women in the hope they never change, and women marry men in the hope they never change. In the end, they’re both disappointed.” Men never change, and they never have to if you really love them. If you’re loving and supportive, they will grow and be more mature.

4. Emotional co-dependency.

Men need their space and it’s a fact. They don’t want to be treated like an item – they need their friends, they need their me time and don’t want to be babysitters. Once he loses the feeling of freedom, you can bet he’s going to try to find a way out of the relationship. A healthy relationship needs both partners to have their own hobbies and friends, and this co-dependency is what drives the relationship forward.
If you cut away their freedom, men will feel like in a prison. As soon as they realize it, they will leave and never come back. Men really fear losing their freedom, so make sure not to do this if you really love him.

5. He is threatened by the woman’s success.

According to a study conducted by experts from the University of Florida, men feel threatened when their partner is more successful than them. A woman’s success affects them in a negative way and they are inclined to leave. This is a major reason for a man to leave a woman, so don’t be surprised when he walks out the door if you’re making more than him.

6. She compares him to other men.

There is nothing more annoying to a man than listening to a woman talk about past relationships. When the woman starts to compare him to an ex, that’s the beginning of the end. Men do not want to analyze their partner’s past.
A man wants to believe he is the only one that matters right now. He doesn’t want to hear that a previous lover did this or that. He wants to know that what he is doing right now is enough.
Men love women. They fall in love with expectation of being appreciated, respected and supported. When he does not feel he is the hero of the story, he will make a serious decision to change the status of the relationship.
Sources: yourtango.com, humanexplore.com

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