Sometimes God Sends an Ex Back Into Your Life to See If You Are Still Stupid
It’s been a few months since you left him. It was not easy to do it, but after all, you realize what an asshole your ex is.
On the top of that, you might already be dating someone who seems to be better. Until one beautiful day you and your ex cross paths again. And it all starts coming back to you.
Until one day just before work, she stumbled upon him in front of the building she was working in. This meeting wouldn’t have been that surprising if Marry hadn’t moved to another town in the area after they broke up. And Mr. Ex didn’t know about it. After the initial shock, he explained that he was on a business trip and also didn’t miss the chance to confess that he couldn’t get over her.
“He said he’s been through a lot since we’ve parted ways and that he
is a different person now. He gave me his card and asked me to call and
meet him some time to discuss the things between us…” told me Marry on
the phone later that day.
Fate seemed to be throwing a curve ball at her with this. It was evident that life was testing Marry in a way. Meeting your ex by chance in another town doesn’t happen every day. Marry was confused and needed advice. Was it worth to give this man another chance? Has he changed for real? Could it be different this time?
And she is not the only one searching for these answers. Often after a break-up, we feel remorse and doubts about not giving that person another chance. But as the famous saying states: When your past calls, don’t answer. It has nothing new to say.
Here are seven reasons that could explain why it isn’t that of a good idea to get back together with someone who’s disappointed you or isn’t for you:
You’ve tried to talk to them about the problems in this relationship.
Opened up and shared everything that made you nervous. You admitted to
them that they have annoying habits which make you feel uncomfortable.
Asked them to change. And you were ready to do the same of course. But
they never seemed to listen or to give it a try. So, do you believe that
your Ex would be able to change this time? Or they would just be
pretending until sooner or later they get tired of this game and take
the mask off?
On the top of that, you might already be dating someone who seems to be better. Until one beautiful day you and your ex cross paths again. And it all starts coming back to you.
The story of Marry who dumped her boyfriend
That is pretty much the case of my friend Marry who broke up with an emotionally manipulative man after four years. She even caught him cheating on her. That made her finally cut the cord. She was through a lot of pain because of this, but it seemed the only right decision. And as time was passing by the memory of Mr. Ex started to fade away slowly…Until one day just before work, she stumbled upon him in front of the building she was working in. This meeting wouldn’t have been that surprising if Marry hadn’t moved to another town in the area after they broke up. And Mr. Ex didn’t know about it. After the initial shock, he explained that he was on a business trip and also didn’t miss the chance to confess that he couldn’t get over her.
Fate seemed to be throwing a curve ball at her with this. It was evident that life was testing Marry in a way. Meeting your ex by chance in another town doesn’t happen every day. Marry was confused and needed advice. Was it worth to give this man another chance? Has he changed for real? Could it be different this time?
And she is not the only one searching for these answers. Often after a break-up, we feel remorse and doubts about not giving that person another chance. But as the famous saying states: When your past calls, don’t answer. It has nothing new to say.
Here are seven reasons that could explain why it isn’t that of a good idea to get back together with someone who’s disappointed you or isn’t for you:
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